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Most of us want to live good lives—lives based on connection, lives based on friendship, lives based on others recognizing who we are. But we often ignore the places and spaces in our society—facilities we call social infrastructure—that can build those ties. We cut funding to libraries, allow private developers to cut down shared green spaces, and neglect our local restaurants, cafes, and bars. To build healthy and happy societies, we need to be able to connect beyond our own nationality, religion, ethnicity, and beliefs. These spaces help us do just that.
I love this book because Rebecca Solnit dissolves the disaster movie myth that panic and chaos take over when catastrophe strikes.
Instead, she shows something I have found again in my own fieldwork: shocks often bring out extraordinary calm, generosity, and solidarity, and the very disruption that Hollywood turns into looting and stampedes actually builds social connections rather than severing them.
That is where the book's title comes from, and it captures something I have spent my career trying to prove with data. Solnit proved it with stories, and reading it felt like meeting a kindred spirit who arrived at the same truth from a completely different direction.
"The freshest, deepest, most optimistic account of human nature I've come across in years." -Bill McKibben
The most startling thing about disasters, according to award-winning author Rebecca Solnit, is not merely that so many people rise to the occasion, but that they do so with joy. That joy reveals an ordinarily unmet yearning for community, purposefulness, and meaningful work that disaster often provides. A Paradise Built in Hell is an investigation of the moments of altruism, resourcefulness, and generosity that arise amid disaster's grief and disruption and considers their implications for everyday life. It points to a new vision of…
Magical realism meets the magic of Christmas in this mix of Jewish, New Testament, and Santa stories–all reenacted in an urban psychiatric hospital!
On locked ward 5C4, Josh, a patient with many similarities to Jesus, is hospitalized concurrently with Nick, a patient with many similarities to Santa. The two argue…
Most of us want to live good lives—lives based on connection, lives based on friendship, lives based on others recognizing who we are. But we often ignore the places and spaces in our society—facilities we call social infrastructure—that can build those ties. We cut funding to libraries, allow private developers to cut down shared green spaces, and neglect our local restaurants, cafes, and bars. To build healthy and happy societies, we need to be able to connect beyond our own nationality, religion, ethnicity, and beliefs. These spaces help us do just that.
I love this book because Jane Jacobs refused to see cities as machines for moving people efficiently from place to place.
Instead, she showed me that healthy cities are built around the small, unplanned collisions of everyday life: the conversations on a stoop, the wait at a bus bench, the chance run-in at a corner store.
Reading her, I started noticing how sidewalks, benches, and parks aren't just infrastructure; they're the physical architecture of trust. That idea has stayed with me throughout my own career studying resilience: the places where people bump into each other repeatedly are exactly the places that hold communities together when disaster strikes.
In this classic text, Jane Jacobs set out to produce an attack on current city planning and rebuilding and to introduce new principles by which these should be governed. The result is one of the most stimulating books on cities ever written.
Throughout the post-war period, planners temperamentally unsympathetic to cities have been let loose on our urban environment. Inspired by the ideals of the Garden City or Le Corbusier's Radiant City, they have dreamt up ambitious projects based on self-contained neighbourhoods, super-blocks, rigid 'scientific' plans and endless acres of grass. Yet they seldom stop to look at what actually…
Most of us want to live good lives—lives based on connection, lives based on friendship, lives based on others recognizing who we are. But we often ignore the places and spaces in our society—facilities we call social infrastructure—that can build those ties. We cut funding to libraries, allow private developers to cut down shared green spaces, and neglect our local restaurants, cafes, and bars. To build healthy and happy societies, we need to be able to connect beyond our own nationality, religion, ethnicity, and beliefs. These spaces help us do just that.
I love this book because Eric Klinenberg writes it like a love letter to libraries, parks, and places of worship—the everyday spaces.
I have spent my career studying, and he makes the case for them with more warmth than any academic study I have read. His qualitative fieldwork brought home just how much these ordinary buildings do the quiet work of stitching together a country that so often feels defined by division.
Reading it, I felt like someone had finally put language to what I had been trying to show through data for years: that social infrastructure is not a luxury; it is the connective tissue holding polarized communities together.
* How can we bring people together? In Palaces for the People the sociologist and best-selling author Eric Klinenberg introduces a transformative and powerfully uplifting new idea for health, happiness, safety and healing our divided, unequal society.
'This wonderful book shows us how democracies thrive' Steven Levitsky & Daniel Ziblatt, authors of How Democracies Die
Too often we take for granted and neglect our libraries, parks, markets, schools, playgrounds, gardens and communal spaces, but decades of research now shows that these places can have an extraordinary effect on our personal and collective wellbeing. Why? Because wherever people cross paths and…
The Parent's Guide to Birdnesting
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Dr. Ann Gold Buscho,
Based on research about how divorce can affect children, you will learn how to best support your children's resilience, as well as your own. For parents who are separating and want to put their children first, birdnesting could be the interim or long-term shared parenting solution you’ve been looking for.…
Most of us want to live good lives—lives based on connection, lives based on friendship, lives based on others recognizing who we are. But we often ignore the places and spaces in our society—facilities we call social infrastructure—that can build those ties. We cut funding to libraries, allow private developers to cut down shared green spaces, and neglect our local restaurants, cafes, and bars. To build healthy and happy societies, we need to be able to connect beyond our own nationality, religion, ethnicity, and beliefs. These spaces help us do just that.
I love this book because Ray Oldenburg convinced me that a society built only around homes and offices is a sick society.
He calls the cafes, coffee shops, and neighborhood bars our "third places," and once I read his argument, I could not stop seeing how much of my own sense of belonging comes from exactly these spots, not the ones where I work or sleep.
As someone who has spent years studying what holds communities together, I found in Oldenburg both a name and a theory for something I had always felt but never articulated: we need places that ask nothing of us but our presence.
The landmark survey that celebrates all the places where people hang out--and is helping to spawn their revival
A New York Times Book Review Editor's Choice
"Third places," or "great good places," are the many public places where people can gather, put aside the concerns of home and work (their first and second places), and hang out simply for the pleasures of good company and lively conversation. They are the heart of a community's social vitality and the grassroots of a democracy. Author Ray Oldenburg portrays, probes, and promotes th4ese great good places--coffee houses, cafes, bookstores, hair salons, bars, bistros,…
I’ve been studying friendships for over 20 years. As a sociologist, I use social science research methods, particularly interviewing and network analysis, to better understand who people are friends with and how friendship ties help us. As a professor at Dartmouth College, I’m particularly interested in how friendship ties help college students academically and socially and how they get in the way academically and socially. My first research on friendship was a group project in a Women’s Studies course at Tulane University focused on undergraduate women’s close friendships. The best part of that study was developing close friendships with each other, some of which have lasted more than two decades!
While friends are important in many ways, so are “weak ties” within our networks. In this non-fiction book, sociologist Mario Luis Small analyzes interviews with a group of graduate students, investigating who they turn to for support about a range of topics, including love, depression, and finances. Because of the obligations that close friends and family entail, Small finds that people often avoid turning to these close ties and instead rely on the convenience of people in their orbits. I’m drawn to this book because it contradicts what we think we know about who we talk to about important matters and because it’s such a rich investigation of people’s social ties and under what circumstances they actually turn to the people closest to them.
Winner of the James Coleman Award for Best Book from the Rationality and Society section of the American Sociological Society Winner of the Outstanding Recent Contribution from the Social Psychology section of the American Sociological Association Winner of the Best Publication Award from the Mental Health section of the American Sociological Association Honorable Mention, PROSE Book Award, Cultural Anthropology and Sociology, from the Association of American Publishers
When people are facing difficulties, they often feel the need for a confidant. How do they decide on whom to rely? In Someone To Talk To, Mario Luis Small follows a group of…
Whether writing under my pen name Kate Somerset, or showing up as Ann Louden in real life, I've always believed in the enriching value of making memorable connections. As a consultant to nonprofits, I emphasize it’s not the number of donors that guarantees philanthropic support. It’s the quality of relationships with the organization. The deeper the connections, the more likely that donors will significantly invest and re-invest. As a breast cancer survivor/spokesperson, I know the importance of having a support team. And as an author and relationship coach, I emphasize establishing trust in relationships. The books on this list describe how you can be a connector, each with uniquely valuable content. I hope you find them all meaningful!
I have told countless people about this book; it is one of the most life-changing books I’ve ever read. Bob Beaudine offers a dramatic idea: that each of us is given 15 “who”—people who can profoundly change the course of our lives.
Our “who” consists of 12 friends, 3 close friends, and one best friend who help us achieve our goals and dreams. Each of these people has a sphere of influence and can introduce us to them. Since reading this book, I have paid much closer attention to my “who” and how to stay actively involved with them.
Whenever I need to focus on what’s most important, I remind myself to prioritize the time I devote to interacting with my “who”.
Bob Beaudine believes Networking is Not working for Americans any longer. This highly respected head hunter shares his philosophy on what really works in not only identifying what your dream in life is but how to get it. Using his unique principle Beaudine takes the networking concept, shakes it up and rebuilds it, explaining that we already know everyone we need to know. Bob Beaudine explains this new way for us to achieve our dreams clearly, in a step-by step fashion using his well-tested knowledge to break it down and help us tap into the Power of Who.
A runaway finds sisterhood, love, and danger in a mountain town.
On the run from her abusive husband, Kyra Smith hits the road. Destination unknown. With a dog she rescued in tow, she lands in the peaceful California mountain town of Gold Creek and is immediately befriended by an openhearted…
I am a professor at Cornell University who struggles with the meaning of individual action in the face of looming crises—be they plastics and litter, or climate. The idea of Network Climate Action bubbled up one morning as a way to magnify individual actions, such as eating a plant-rich diet, donating money to a climate organization, or joining in an advocacy group. Network Climate Action helps me achieve my role-ideals as a teacher, volunteer, friend, mom, and grandmother, and it gives meaning and happiness to my life. I live in beautiful Ithaca, NY, with my chosen family, which includes an Afghan artist and a Ukrainian mom and her two kids.
If we could just teach about the evils of climate change, people would surely change their behaviors.
I knew this idea was not born up by the facts and was searching for an alternative. This book showed me that if I wanted to get people to eat climate-friendly foods or become a climate advocate, I needed to think about social connections—in particular, what people see their friends and family doing.
Not only do the authors describe how we influence each other’s health, voting, and even happiness—they also argue that social networks provide a middle ground between individual destiny vs structural determinism.
In my work, Network Climate Action is similarly a middle ground between individual behavior change vs government policy in addressing the climate crisis.
Renowned scientists Christakis and Fowler present compelling evidence for our profound influence on one another's tastes, health, wealth, happiness, beliefs, even weight, as they explain how social networks form and how they operate.
Nelson Johnson is a New York Times bestselling author (Boardwalk Empire) and has been fascinated with history and Clarence Darrow’s career all his life. From having practiced law many years and presided over 200(+) jury trials as a New Jersey Superior Court Judge, Nelson is uniquely qualified to tell the story of Darrow’s and his wife Ruby’s worst two years together. Nelson’s first four books have all prepared him to tell this story. It’s a tale that asks the reader to judge Darrow.
Ferguson’s book “connects a lot of dots” to help make sense of where we are with regards to the influence of social media and the dramatic changes unleashed by the digital revolution as it transforms our society. Ferguson does an excellent job explaining that “networks” have always been with us, but how/why the more complicated/intricate our societal networks become, the more vulnerable we are. He places the role of Facebook into a sorely needed but sobering context. I have re-read many entire portions of this book and have viewed the PBS documentary on this book twice.
A brilliant recasting of the turning points in world history, including the one we're living through, as a collision between old power hierarchies and new social networks.
"Captivating and compelling." -The New York Times
"Niall Ferguson has again written a brilliant book...In 400 pages you will have restocked your mind. Do it." -The Wall Street Journal
"The Square and the Tower, in addition to being provocative history, may prove to be a bellwether work of the Internet Age." -Christian Science Monitor
Most history is hierarchical: it's about emperors, presidents, prime ministers and field marshals.…
The first day of my career began with 1,000 people being laid off citing “post-merger efficiencies.” I was the young whippersnapper walking in as many more were walking out, boxes in hand. I saw, firsthand, the impact of uncertainty, lack of clear and transparent communications, and leadership, not just on performance, but also on the health and well-being of the colleagues around me. In that first job I became fascinated and obsessed with how work can be something we enjoy and find meaning in. Since then, I’ve devoted my career to making work more inspiring, engaging, and fulfilling. This became my passion and cause because I felt the very opposite.
As a budding professional I was told not to be so kind to others, so I wasn’t taken advantage of.
Changing who I was and wanted to be didn’t seem like the right recipe for my success. Grant’s debut book has likely had the most impact on how I show up in my career and in life – that being a giver can be the key to our success and fulfillment. A must read for anyone who wants to do well while doing good.
A groundbreaking look at why our interactions with others hold the key to success, from the bestselling author of Think Again and Originals
For generations, we have focused on the individual drivers of success: passion, hard work, talent, and luck. But in today's dramatically reconfigured world, success is increasingly dependent on how we interact with others. In Give and Take, Adam Grant, an award-winning researcher and Wharton's highest-rated professor, examines the surprising forces that shape why some people rise to the top of the success ladder while others sink to the bottom. Praised by social scientists, business theorists, and corporate…
The Strange Case of Guaritori Diolco
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Bill Hiatt,
Guaritori awakens from a coma to find that he's lost twenty years--and his entire world.
Fiancée, family, and friends are all missing, perhaps dead. Technology has failed, and magic has risen, leaving society in ruins. Most survivors are at the mercy of anyone who has strong enough magic. Guaritori has…
I am a professor of entrepreneurship, entrepreneur, and manager who has spent much time thinking and doing research on why collaboration among firms and people is so valued, yet so hard to make successful. I was born in Bergen, Norway, and have spent my time studying and working worldwide – a PhD from Stanford, then working in Japan and Norway until settling in Singapore, working for INSEAD. Keeping my body and mind fit is important to me, so I train boxing and read anything from short articles to lengthy books, on any topic from business to wine.
Before even thinking about collaborations and alliances with other firms, executives should consider whether their firm is collaborative enough. Surprisingly, the answer is often “no” because the structure and processes have not been established with an eye towards building a network that spreads information and facilitates collaboration. This book provides very helpful advice on how to improve firms through internal network building.
Driving Results Through Social Networks shows executives and managers how to obtain substantial performance and innovation impact by better leveraging these traditionally invisible assets. For the past decade, Rob Cross and Robert J. Thomas have worked closely with executives from over a hundred top-level companies and government agencies. In this groundbreaking book, they describe in-depth how these leaders are using network thinking to increase revenues, lower costs, and accelerate innovation.
