Book cover of The Once and Future Sex: Going Medieval on Women's Roles in Society

Book description

What makes for the ideal woman? How should she look, love and be? In this vibrant, high-spirited history, medievalist Eleanor Janega turns to the Middle Ages, the era that bridged the ancient world and modern society, to unfurl its suppositions about women and reveal what's shifted over time-and what hasn't.

…

When you buy books, we may earn a commission that helps keep our lights on (or join the rebellion as a member).

Why read it?

2 authors picked The Once and Future Sex as one of their favorite books. Why do they recommend it?

Reading this book is like listening to your incredibly knowledgeable historian friend talk about medieval society over drinks. Janega’s turns of phrase and sharp observations make me laugh, and at the same time, I feel my mind soak up knowledge like a sponge.

This book is about what medieval people thought and why, going back to the philosophies and influences of ancient Greece and Rome. It tackles medieval beauty standards, sexual practices, family life, and work life. It addresses fart jokes and eyeliner, as well as ideas about biology and class disparities. We see women farming, ruling, weaving, brewing, and…

Eleanor Janega is that rare beast – an academic who brings history to vivid, irreverent, and hilarious life for the average reader.

I first encountered her waxing lyrical on medieval sex on The Medieval Podcast, and she’s since launched her own podcast: We’re Not So Different. Medieval ideas of gender affected everything about a woman’s life in the Middle Ages, and books like The Once and Future Sex are wonderfully helpful to novelists like me who like to get their historical details right. Besides, Janega is a legend and I’ll read or listen to anything she creates.

If you love The Once and Future Sex...

Book cover of December on 5C4

December on 5C4 by Adam Strassberg,

Magical realism meets the magic of Christmas in this mix of Jewish, New Testament, and Santa stories–all reenacted in an urban psychiatric hospital!

On locked ward 5C4, Josh, a patient with many similarities to Jesus, is hospitalized concurrently with Nick, a patient with many similarities to Santa. The two argue…

Want books like The Once and Future Sex?

Our community of 13,000+ authors has personally recommended 100 books like The Once and Future Sex.

Browse books like The Once and Future Sex

Book cover of Medieval Bodies: Life, Death and Art in the Middle Ages
Book cover of Common Women: Prostitution and Sexuality in Medieval England
Book cover of Wine of Violence

Share your top 3 reads of 2026!

And get a beautiful page showing off your 3 favorite reads.

170

readers submitted
so far, will you?

📚 If you like The Once and Future Sex, you might also like...

Book cover of Sexy Selfie Nation: Standing Up for Yourself in Today's Toxic, Sexist Culture

Sexy Selfie Nation by Leora Tanenbaum,

The problem is not with the actions young women take but with the toxic, sexist conditions they are responding to.

Tanenbaum found, based on six years of interviews with young people ages 14-30, that young women are navigating a culture littered with gendered dress codes, revenge porn, and sexually explicit…

Book cover of In This Together: Connecting with Your Community to Combat the Climate Crisis

In This Together by Marianne E. Krasny,

In This Together explores how we can harness our social networks to make a real impact fighting the climate crisis. Against notions of the lone environmental crusader, Marianne E. Krasny shows us the power of "network climate action"—the idea that our own ordinary acts can influence and inspire those close…

5 book lists we think you will like!