Why am I passionate about this?

When I set out to write a novel in the female voice, it was purely intended as an interesting riff on one of my favorite works, Alfie. There were no literary ambitions, or frankly, awareness of other works to benchmark myself against or build upon. My motivation was the rawness of the idea itself and the excitement of an uncharted, enjoyable venture. It wasn’t until I read other reference works—before, during, and after the writing process—that I became aware of the unique and enriching reading experience such an approach can offer. A multi-faceted experience that, for many, ultimately becomes less about the story and more about the introspection and awareness it fosters.


I wrote...

Vesper

By Evan Marks ,

Book cover of Vesper

What is my book about?

An anti-romance literary novel about independence, love, and self-discovery told through the eyes of Manhattan consultant Vesper. Torn between a…

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The books I picked & why

Book cover of Heroides

Evan Marks Why I love this book

One of the most interesting and influential writers of all time, he was banished from society for being too provocative before inspiring and appearing in the works of Shakespeare, Dante, and Goethe.

Heroides is one of my favorite works from his long list of great titles, in no small part due to the sheer creativity of the undertaking. It not only retells Greek myths from the perspective of a woman but also restructures the narratives around love rather than war and destruction.

Not bad for 20BCE and probably about as comforting a reference as one could ask for when writing from the perspective of the opposite gender.

By Ovid , Harold Isbell (translator) ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Heroides as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

In the twenty-one poems of the Heroides, Ovid gave voice to the heroines and heroes of epic and myth. These deeply moving literary epistles reveal the happiness and torment of love, as the writers tell of their pain at separation, forgiveness of infidelity or anger at betrayal. The faithful Penelope wonders at the suspiciously long absence of Ulysses, while Dido bitterly reproaches Aeneas for too eagerly leaving her bed to follow his destiny, and Sappho - the only historical figure portrayed here - describes her passion for the cruelly rejecting Phaon. In the poetic letters between Paris and Helen the…


Book cover of The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P.

Evan Marks Why I love this book

There’s so much to like about this book, whether it’s the quality of writing, entertaining narrative, or intriguing character study.

But for me, the most memorable aspect was that it brought an entirely new appreciation for the beauty of cross-gender narratives. Specifically, the uniqueness such endeavors offer through the introspection they invite.

Whether it’s on a conscious or subconscious basis, you’re encouraged to evaluate the voice on a deeper level than you otherwise would—its accuracy, its sincerity, and so on. And in doing so, you inevitably draw on your own experiences and perhaps become aware of your own biases or limitations.

It adds a whole new dimension to the work, and one that can arguably feel more personal than what you might find in other types of narratives.

By Adelle Waldman ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P. as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Nathaniel Piven is a rising star in Brooklyn's literary scene. After several lean, striving years and an early life as a class-A nerd, he now (to his surprise) has a lucrative book deal, his pick of plum magazine assignments, and the attentions of many desirable women: Juliet, the hotshot business journalist; Elisa, Nate's gorgeous ex-girlfriend, now friend; Hannah, lively and fun and 'almost universally regarded as nice and smart, or smart and nice'.

In this twenty-first-century literary enclave, wit and conversation are not at all dead. But is romance? In The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P. Adelle Waldman plunges into…


Book cover of Cyborg Fever

Cyborg Fever by Laurie Sheck,

From Pulitzer Finalist Laurie Sheck (A Monster's Notes), a new speculative literary fiction in the spirit of Italo Calvino, Umberto Ecco and Donna Haraway's Cyborg Manifesto that enacts an incisive and moving exploration into what it means to be human in the age of AI and increasing inhumanism.…

Book cover of Wittgenstein's Mistress

Evan Marks Why I love this book

Like Ludwig Wittgenstein himself, this book is a work of extremes.

The delusions are grand, the narrative is dense, and the non-sequiturs are out of control. And yet, the more time you spend with it, the more these inhibitors become the very reason for your voracious engagement.

Once you get through that, what stands out about this work is the nuanced approach Markson takes to the female voice. On the one hand, it’s very subtle, with thin, cosmetic references to clothing, aesthetics, and male love interests. But as you immerse yourself in the text, you begin to sense a deeper ambition is possibly at work, inherent in the stream-of-consciousness narrative he employs.

The other thing that’s cool about this book is the series of disparate facts Markson weaves together about a range of cultural figures. It’s easy to take these as throwaway comments until you remember they were accumulated manually, before the internet was invented.

By David Markson ,

Why should I read it?

3 authors picked Wittgenstein's Mistress as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Wittgenstein's Mistress is a novel unlike anything David Markson or anyone else has ever written before. It is the story of a woman who is convinced and, astonishingly, will ultimately convince the reader as well that she is the only person left on earth.

Presumably she is mad. And yet so appealing is her character, and so witty and seductive her narrative voice, that we will follow her hypnotically as she unloads the intellectual baggage of a lifetime in a series of irreverent meditations on everything and everybody from Brahms to sex to Heidegger to Helen of Troy. And as…


Book cover of Monsieur Vénus

Evan Marks Why I love this book

I came across this at the Tate Modern, where they were featuring a room of works highlighting gender fluidity, named after Rachilde’s work, along with an accompanying narrative.

I’m all about serendipity, and the fact that I was in London promoting Vesper and stumbled across this the day before I left; well, I found it timely and intriguing. What followed was one of the most provocative reads I’ve come across of late, particularly when you contextualize the impact it likely had when it was written in 19th-century Paris.

What’s noteworthy about the piece is the author’s bold inversion of gender stereotypes, dramatized through the power dynamic between an aristocratic woman and her impoverished but highly attractive lover. The subversion is so pronounced that it pushes you to form an opinion on how such perceptions are treated in contemporary times; another example of the unique qualities these kinds of works can offer.

By Rachilde , Audrey Dubois (illustrator) , Majeska (illustrator)

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Monsieur Vénus as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

About this bookDiscover Monsieur Vénus in stunning hardcover, paperback, or eBook editions, crafted for today’s readers. Adorned with Majeska’s exquisite 1929 illustrations, this timeless classic comes alive in a beautifully preserved format.Brief Summary of the StoryMonsieur Venus follows the unconventional and provocative relationship between Raoule de Vénérande, a wealthy and eccentric aristocrat, and Jacques Silvert, a beautiful but impoverished florist. Set against the backdrop of late 19th-century Paris, the novel explores themes of (trans)gender, power, and sexuality, challenging societal norms and expectations. Raoule's dominant personality and her pursuit of Jacques invert traditional gender roles, creating a dynamic that is both…


Book cover of Cyborg Fever

Cyborg Fever by Laurie Sheck,

From Pulitzer Finalist Laurie Sheck (A Monster's Notes), a new speculative literary fiction in the spirit of Italo Calvino, Umberto Ecco and Donna Haraway's Cyborg Manifesto that enacts an incisive and moving exploration into what it means to be human in the age of AI and increasing inhumanism.…

Book cover of Good Material

Evan Marks Why I love this book

This was provocative in a different way, in that it made me realize how accurately an author can capture the voice of the opposite sex.

Dolly’s portrayal of Andy was, in many ways, both convincing and emotionally resonant, and she achieves this while sustaining a thoroughly entertaining narrative. It was a bittersweet experience because, as enjoyable as the read was, it set an excessively high benchmark for my own attempt.

Thankfully, by the time I got around to reading her book, it was too late to do anything about it, other than make a mental note of how much work would be required if I ever decided to make another run at it.

By Dolly Alderton ,

Why should I read it?

6 authors picked Good Material as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

'Funny - of course it's funny - but also smart, insightful and sincere about heartbreak' David Nicholls, author of One Day

'A novel to be devoured, adored, underlined ... if only more books made you laugh as much as this' The i

'The author of Everything I Know About Love nails the zeitgeist with a witty, relatable and acutely insightful page-turner about the trials and tribulations of the lovelorn' Daily Express

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Every relationship has one beginning.
This one has two endings.

Andy loves Jen. Jen loved Andy.
And he can't work out why she stopped.

Now he is. .…


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Vesper

By Evan Marks ,

Book cover of Vesper

What is my book about?

An anti-romance literary novel about independence, love, and self-discovery told through the eyes of Manhattan consultant Vesper. Torn between a group of friends who date to find a husband and another who do it for personal gain, all Vesper wants to do is enjoy each experience for what it is and the personal growth that comes with it. And that approach is working out just fine for her until she runs into Caspian in the South of France, who inevitably becomes her accidental love interest and, as a result, leads her to reevaluate everything she ever stood for.

On a deeper level, the novel explores themes around perspective, change, and societal complacency; hence, my publicist’s pitch: "Sex in the City meets Milan Kundera.”

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