Why read Silently Seduced?

Book cover of Silently Seduced: When Parents Make Their Children Partners

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When a parent singles out a child for special privileges and attention, that child is often unaware that the relationship is unhealthy-even incestuous. As adults, these children struggle to feel validated, because while they have not been directly abused, they feel a sense of violation and crossed boundaries-usually done in…

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Why read it?

1 author picked Silently Seduced as one of their favorite books. Why do they recommend it?

Jan Bergstrom

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I love this book because when I work with clients about their childhood developmental trauma, many times, they interpret being close to a parent as special and flourishing when they were growing up. Little do they know even though it may feel good to be a close friend or partner to a parent, I see them being used by the parent for emotional support and not being able to have their own life.

I like how Adams describes in depth why this is considered trauma and its impact today.

From Jan's list on healing persistent childhood trauma.