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Lois Roelofs always knew that Marv, her husband of fifty-five years, had strong convictions. So when he was diagnosed with “very aggressive” small cell lung cancer, with a few weeks to a few months to live, she accepted that he wanted to die on his own terms―refuse chemo, choose quality…

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1 author picked Marv Taking Charge as one of their favorite books. Why do they recommend it?

Lois Roelofs' bold account of her husband's terminal illness and his treatment decisions provides the reader with a compelling story about life-affirming choices despite painful truths about morbidity.

Roelofs chronicles her husband's final months exquisitely and honestly, with humanity and respect for her husband, Marv's decisions about the quality of life and treatment, despite his dire diagnosis.

Reading Roelof's book renewed my admiration for healthcare heroes and family members who become caregivers. A compelling read that is both realistic and celebratory, honoring her dear husband, Marv.

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