Will I love In Memoriam?

I believe that good war stories are also good love stories. That’s why I so loved this one. I came of age during the Vietnam War and watched many young men–my cousins, their friends, our neighbors–go off to fight.

I remember my cousin David having to leave his fianceé behind. She planned the wedding alone, and I was one of the cousins who shopped for bridesmaid’s dresses and shower presents while David was in Vietnam. When he returned, he was too traumatized to go through with the wedding and called it off.

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Heartbreaking love story captured through the lens of war. The characterization in this novel was second to none. I listened to the audio book, read brilliantly by Christian Coulson

I usually avoid war stories as I find them unnerving, but this had such good reviews that I made an exception - and I am glad I did. It is more of a love story than a war story, as we follow Henry Gaunt and Sidney Ellwood from school to the battlefield, in an era when their love for each other is seen as shameful and, not least, illegal. Their guilt and joy at being together are powerfully painted by the author, although the horrors of the First World War are equally vivid. It's a powerful mix.

It took me back in time, immersed me in the lives of the young characters, and showed me how minds are shaped and misled by society. It is beautifully written and tells deeply emotional stories of love and friendship.

Alice Winn writes with great tenderness and depth of understanding about two young men who fall in love against the backdrop of the Great War.

As a lesbian who struggled in my youthful years with coming out and finding my place in the world, I resonated with the shame, trepidation, and ambivalence these men experienced.

I love to support authors who grapple with the difficult questions around acceptance of gays and lesbians, and I applaud Alice Winn for the heartfelt story she tells in this novel. 

I tore through this book in no time but didn’t want it to end.

In Memoriam offers a look at the horrors of the trench warfare of WWI through the eyes of two young British men who are high school chums and very much in love with each other.

I was as much captivated by the depths of their friendship as I was horrified by the violence that surrounded them. Not an easy read at times with all the senseless deaths experienced by that generation, but extremely moving in its depiction of the intensities of both love and war.

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In Memoriam ripped my heart out (in a good way) and then put it back again...

Set in 1914, the story opens as the First World War begins. Henry Gaunt and Sidney Ellwood are friends at boarding school, leading privileged and sheltered lives. When Gaunt enlists and heads off to the trenches, Ellwood has no choice but to follow his heart. 

This tale of devastating tragedy and forbidden love was so realistic, raw, and beautiful, it made me sob. In Memoriam is a beautiful, poignant, devastating love story. But the depiction of life as a soldier in the trenches drew… show more.

I guarantee it's only a matter of time before In Memoriam is acknowledged as a modern classic, and the fact that this is the author's debut only makes this more impressive.

Spanning the length of the First World War, from outbreak to peace, the novel sections itself into three. First establishing its gorgeously painful best-friends-to-lovers, seemingly-unrequited/actually-unexpressed romance between stoic scholar of Greek tragedies Gaunt and light-hearted poet Ellwood, it tracks the rise and fall of these characters through the hellish trenches of France and Belgium, through to the battle to survive prisoner of war camps, and – eventually – shines… show more.