Will I love Bird by Bird?

I love that Bird by Bird doesn’t read like a reference book.

Lamott’s words feel personal. The book is personal to me because my daughter gave me her college copy of Bird by Bird when I began my writing journey. Lamott’s plain, honest, and affirming words, like first drafts are “shitty” and “writing a first draft is very much like watching a Polaroid develop,” resonate with me. Bravo to Lamott for this great metaphor!

Writing can be solitary, but Lamott reminds us we’re not alone. So, I heeded her words. I joined the party and became an active literary citizen.… show more.

The author’s charming and disarming Lamott-isms (“bird by bird” as a way to describe baby steps; “sh**tty rough drafts” as a way to forgive ourselves for writing imperfectly; pretending the inner critic is a mouse in a jar, then turning down its volume) give writers the permission to be, simply, human.

A classic, warm book that always brings me back to the page.

What I love most about Bird by Bird is the way that Anne Lamott characterises writing as a gift, a giving over to someone else in a manner akin only to being a parent.

While I am not a parent, I am inspired by this idea that the written word can make a person braver and better by virtue of opening them up to the world and people in new ways. Despite the hurdles and difficulties of the practice, which Lamott deftly outlines, she ultimately decides that a writer is pursuing an act of generosity and openness. I really love… show more.

I recommend this classic because, even though it is designed for personal or imaginative writers rather than for academic types, she offers empathy, encouragement, and amusing takes on all forms of writing.

She offers warm and supportive guidance for what can often feel like a lonely, risky, and unrewarding venture. 

Sent to me by a dear friend just when I needed it, this delightfully cheeky book about writing gave me the push to be courageous and truthful both in life and in my written endeavors.

Full of candid advice, hilarious anecdotes, and helpful information, this book is half manual and half a memoir of Lammott’s escapades in authorship. It speaks directly to the part of us that holds our deepest stories and silently longs to make them into something useful, beautiful, and meaningful–whether or not we plan to share them with the world. 

I love this book because I like to write. 

Anne makes me feel normal when I immobilize my writing by fearing that no one will like it or, worse yet, that no one will even care to read it. When I am pulled off my joy of writing, I re-read this book and find my joy again.

Every time I start a new project, I run through all the reasons not to begin. Perfectionism is such an enemy to creativity.

Anne Lamott offers practical, hard-won advice on the creative process, getting over our self-imposed hurdles bird by bird (one by one). I resonated with her encouragement to compose a lousy first draft that we can then start to edit and refine. I’m so glad she challenged us to turn off the radio buzzing in our own heads.

We may not be able to see where our creative endeavors will lead, but Anne brings humor and humanity to… show more.

To play better tennis, watch Roger Federer; to be funny, tune in Mel Brooks, Sarah Silverman, or Nancy Meyers; to deliver great mystery/suspense, read Lee Child; to write poetry that penetrates our hearts, read Mary Oliver or Maya Angelou. Our brains are wired for “mirroring” the neural activity that reflexively has us act like who we see or hear. 

Anne Lamott’s prose superbly (and seemingly) effortlessly paints word portraits of family, friends, circumstances, and (especially) herself that make us grin and laugh; feel mean, kindly or loving; chained or free; bemused or despondent. Wow! That’s literary range and brilliance. 

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I recommend this book because I have found that creativity is on its own wavelength, and some days I have to work harder than others to find its harmonious rhythm. Some days the flow state is easy to glide on, and other days I find myself creating impractical methods to achieve the same results. This was until I discovered this book.

Lamont suggests breaking up the tasks into bite-size pieces and giving your whole self to the smaller tasks at hand. My confidence increases with each completed smaller task, and I end up having an enjoyable day.

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This is one of my favorite books on writing, and I re-read it this summer when I needed some inspiration to give me the kick in the pants I needed to finish a project I was working on. 

I feel like Lamott writes down all the things the rest of us are too afraid to say. She addresses things like self-doubt, procrastination, fear, and jealousy with such honesty and humor that it had me laughing out loud.

On top of this, she gives such wonderful advice on writing (giving yourself permission to write crummy first drafts is my favorite) that… show more.