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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • An essential volume for generations of writers young and old. The twenty-fifth anniversary edition of this modern classic will continue to spark creative minds for years to come. Anne Lamott is "a warm, generous, and hilarious guide through the writer’s world and its treacherous swamps"…

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20 authors picked Bird by Bird as one of their favorite books. Why do they recommend it?

What I love most about Bird by Bird is the way that Anne Lamott characterises writing as a gift, a giving over to someone else in a manner akin only to being a parent.

While I am not a parent, I am inspired by this idea that the written word can make a person braver and better by virtue of opening them up to the world and people in new ways. Despite the hurdles and difficulties of the practice, which Lamott deftly outlines, she ultimately decides that a writer is pursuing an act of generosity and openness. I really love…

I recommend this classic because, even though it is designed for personal or imaginative writers rather than for academic types, she offers empathy, encouragement, and amusing takes on all forms of writing.

She offers warm and supportive guidance for what can often feel like a lonely, risky, and unrewarding venture. 

From Joli's list on help you with academic writing.

Sent to me by a dear friend just when I needed it, this delightfully cheeky book about writing gave me the push to be courageous and truthful both in life and in my written endeavors.

Full of candid advice, hilarious anecdotes, and helpful information, this book is half manual and half a memoir of Lammott’s escapades in authorship. It speaks directly to the part of us that holds our deepest stories and silently longs to make them into something useful, beautiful, and meaningful–whether or not we plan to share them with the world. 

From Jessica's list on courage to tell my survivor story.

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I love this book because I like to write. 

Anne makes me feel normal when I immobilize my writing by fearing that no one will like it or, worse yet, that no one will even care to read it.  When I am pulled off my joy of writing, I re-read this book and find my joy again.

From Denise's list on servant leaders who get things done.

Every time I start a new project, I run through all the reasons not to begin. Perfectionism is such an enemy to creativity.

Anne Lamott offers practical, hard-won advice on the creative process, getting over our self-imposed hurdles bird by bird (one by one). I resonated with her encouragement to compose a lousy first draft that we can then start to edit and refine. I’m so glad she challenged us to turn off the radio buzzing in our own heads.

We may not be able to see where our creative endeavors will lead, but Anne brings humor and humanity to…

To play better tennis, watch Roger Federer; to be funny, tune in Mel Brooks, Sarah Silverman, or Nancy Meyers; to deliver great mystery/suspense, read Lee Child; to write poetry that penetrates our hearts, read Mary Oliver or Maya Angelou. Our brains are wired for “mirroring” the neural activity that reflexively has us act like who we see or hear. 

Anne Lamott’s prose superbly (and seemingly) effortlessly paints word portraits of family, friends, circumstances, and (especially) herself that make us grin and laugh; feel mean, kindly or loving; chained or free; bemused or despondent. Wow! That’s literary range and brilliance. 

My…

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The Joy of Writing Sex by Elizabeth Benedict,

Do you freeze up when your characters drift into the bedroom? Are you puzzled about how much to say and how to say it? What to call the body parts that bring us so much pleasure and so much anguish?

If you’re writing a novel and there’s a sexual encounter…

I recommend this book because I have found that creativity is on its own wavelength, and some days I have to work harder than others to find its harmonious rhythm. Some days the flow state is easy to glide on, and other days I find myself creating impractical methods to achieve the same results. This was until I discovered this book.

Lamont suggests breaking up the tasks into bite-size pieces and giving your whole self to the smaller tasks at hand. My confidence increases with each completed smaller task, and I end up having an enjoyable day.

I'm grateful Lamont…

This is one of my favorite books on writing, and I re-read it this summer when I needed some inspiration to give me the kick in the pants I needed to finish a project I was working on. 

I feel like Lamott writes down all the things the rest of us are too afraid to say. She addresses things like self-doubt, procrastination, fear, and jealousy with such honesty and humor that it had me laughing out loud.

On top of this, she gives such wonderful advice on writing (giving yourself permission to write crummy first drafts is my favorite) that…

Anne is the first one to tell you that writing is hard. And often, what you write as a first draft is terrible…and an essential step.

She helps take away the overwhelm by having you focus on one step at a time. It’s a lot easier to write knowing improving your work is part of the journey…vs expecting perfection at the onset. This is the essential writing book for new and experienced writers.

Each time I read it, I remind myself of something new and explore a new angle in my writing practice. This is a must-have for the creative…

Bird by Bird is Anne Lamott's guide on how to achieve your dream of becoming a writer.

She offers sound advice and her personal perspective on how to improve your writing and, at the same time, enhance your life. Lamott effortlessly guides aspiring writers through conceptualizing what they want to say, writing a “shitty first draft,” and polishing off their work for publication. I read it every single year.  

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