The best books about gaslighting by the people you love most

List by Nicola Sanders

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Why am I passionate about this?

I write psychological thrillers, and I find stories where the main character thinks they’re going crazy, particularly gripping, especially when it’s caused by (supposed) loved ones. I suspect it’s because these stories share an element of "this could happen to me." I’ve only written three books, but I’d say all of them have an element of gaslighting, probably because I sit down and think things like, What would it feel like if your best friend came back after many years, and you’re the only one who can tell it’s not her? It’s a deliciously creepy way to pass the time.

The books I picked & why

Darling Girls

By Sally Hepworth ,

Why I love this book

One of my favourite books ever, by one of my favourite authors.

Darling Girls follows three women who grew up together in foster care run by Miss Fairchild, the manipulative foster mother. It's not a spoiler to say that the level of gaslighting inflicted by Miss Fairchild upon these children is out of this world, but it doesn't even end there.

Sally Hepworth treats this difficult topic brilliantly, so it’s never soppy, with plenty of humour to keep things from getting really dark. The final twist is brilliant.

Darling Girls

By Sally Hepworth ,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked Darling Girls as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

SISTERS, SECRETS, LOVE, AND MURDER... Sally Hepworth’s new novel has it all.

For as long as they can remember, Jessica, Norah, and Alicia have been told how lucky they are. As young girls they were rescued from family tragedies and raised by a loving foster mother, Miss Fairchild, on an idyllic farming estate and given an elusive second chance at a happy family life.

But their childhood wasn’t the fairy tale everyone thinks it was. Miss Fairchild had rules. Miss Fairchild could be unpredictable. And Miss Fairchild was never, ever to be crossed. In a moment of desperation, the three…

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If She Did It

By Jessica Treadway ,

Why I love this book

Also one of my favourite books ever, and I honestly wish Jessica Treadway would write more.

A mother who has suffered a horrific attack and who is left with a hazy memory of the events is desperate to believe her daughter had nothing to do with it, even when everyone else thinks otherwise. You never know who is telling the truth, who is lying, who remembers the facts correctly.

The characters are so well drawn, the writing is so good, it’s one of those books where you just have to know who is telling the truth. Gripping from the first sentence. A true psychological thriller.

If She Did It

By Jessica Treadway ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked If She Did It as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

What if you began to suspect your child of an unspeakable crime?

One night changed everything. A father murdered in his bed. A mother beaten almost to death. A daughter who claims she knew nothing about her boyfriend's murderous plans. But is she telling the truth?

Hanna can't remember the details of what happened that traumatic night, she barely survived the brutal assault that left her a widow. However, if she is to keep her husband's killer in jail, she knows she has to try. But Hanna hadn't realised that those memories may cause her to question everything she thought…

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Fake

By Stephanie Wood ,

Why I love this book

I'm including a memoir here, because this great book fits the theme perfectly.

Described as A startling true story of love in a world of liars, cheats, narcissists, fantasists, and phonies, it's the kind of book that makes you feel like you can't look away.

Stephanie Wood embarks on a relationship with a man who seems wonderful, then spends the next year slowly going crazy as she tries to keep up with his lies and deception. We are dumbstruck along with her every step of the way.

Fake

By Stephanie Wood ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Fake as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

When Stephanie Wood meets a former architect turned farmer she embarks on an exhilarating romance with him. He seems compassionate, loving, truthful. They talk about the future. She falls in love. She also becomes increasingly beset by anxiety at his frequent cancellations, no-shows and bizarre excuses. She starts to wonder, who is this man? When she ends the relationship Stephanie reboots her journalism skills and embarks on a romantic investigation. She discovers a story of mind-boggling duplicity and manipulation. She learns that the man she thought she was in love with doesn't exist. She also finds she is not alone;…

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Never Lie

By Freida McFadden ,

Why I love this book

Everybody's probably read this one, but I'll mention it anyway.This book could be titled Everyone is Lying All the Time. It's one of my favourites by McFadden.

Newlyweds Tricia and Ethan find themselves stuck in a house until the snowstorm passes. Everything about the house—the noises, things moving or appearing, secret doors—makes Tricia nervous, but Ethan has an explanation for everything.

The characters of Dr. Hale and her nemesis, EJ, are particularly compelling, and it’s saying something considering they are mostly "written" through the audiotapes that Tricia listens to, so there’s no description of their actions. Just pure dialog on the page, as if you were listening along to the tape.

It’s only at the end that you realise this novel is a series of magic tricks designed to make you look over here while the action was really happening over there.

Never Lie

By Freida McFadden ,

Why should I read it?

3 authors picked Never Lie as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Newlyweds Tricia and Ethan are searching for the house of their dreams. But when they visit the remote manor that once belonged to Dr. Adrienne Hale, a renowned psychiatrist who vanished without a trace four years earlier, a violent winter storm traps them at the estate… with no chance of escape until the blizzard comes to an end.

In search of a book to keep her entertained until the snow abates, Tricia happens upon a secret room. One that contains audio transcripts from every single patient Dr. Hale has ever interviewed. As Tricia listens to the cassette tapes, she learns…

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Listen for the Lie

By Amy Tintera ,

Why I love this book

Lucy's best friend Savannah was murdered, and Lucy is suspected of having killed her. But Lucy can't remember anything about that night. Convenient? Plenty of people think so, including those closest to her. Is Lucy doing the gaslighting?

This plot is masterfully constructed, and I can’t say much more without spoilers. I loved it, and the gaslighting is out of this world.

Listen for the Lie

By Amy Tintera ,

Why should I read it?

5 authors picked Listen for the Lie as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

**RICHARD & JUDY BOOK CLUB PICK**
**INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER**
**THE SUNDAY TIMES 'PICK OF THE MONTH'**
**PRIMA 'BOOK OF THE YEAR'**
**WOMAN & HOME 'BOOK OF THE YEAR'**
**WOMAN & HOME 'BOOK OF THE MONTH'**
**TOP TEN KINDLE BESTSELLER**

'Edgy, thrilling, twisty - I loved it!' - LIANE MORIARTY
'A world-class whodunit' - STEPHEN KING
'Dark comedy and darker thrills' - ALEX MICHAELIDES
'Smart, surprising and very funny - wickedly entertaining' - SHARI LAPENA

Am I a murderer? You tell me . . .

Lucy Chase can't remember anything about the night her best friend was murdered.
Lucky…