Why am I passionate about this?

Since my 40s, I have been plagued by the question: Who packed the suitcase we carry all our lives? My mother never stopped talking about her Holocaust experience, but I didn’t want to hear it. I lost my parents before I was 30 and eventually began to wonder why I hadn’t asked more questions when I could. We are shaped as much by the stories we are not told as by those selected for us to hear. I began to imagine what it would have been like to have a mother who never spoke about her experiences and the secrets that get locked into the suitcase I might carry.  


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Don't Ask

By Gina Roitman ,

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Hannah, a successful real-estate broker, never pressed her mother Rokhl about the past—even as her late father often referenced the…

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Gina Roitman Why I love this book

I fell in love with this story about stolen identities and the anguish of an absent mother damaged by the war who communicates through letters sent to the daughter she abandoned.

There is a poignancy that struck a chord with me as the daughter’s life unfolds in the shadow of a distant, absent mother. And I understood her need to find out who her mother was and why she left. I was also captivated by the way the mother and daughter’s lives are spun out to weave an intricate yet powerful web of intrigue. 

Most importantly, I loved the premise as before reading it I had written a novel with similar elements—a distant mother damaged by the war who communicates with her daughter through notes. 

By Nancy Richler ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked The Imposter Bride as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

The Imposter Bride by Nancy Richler is an unforgettable novel about a mysterious mail-order bride in the wake of WWII, whose sudden decision ripples through time to deeply impact the daughter she never knew

In the wake of World War II, a young, enigmatic woman named Lily arrives in Montreal on her own, expecting to be married to a man she's never met. But, upon seeing her at the train station, Sol Kramer turns her down. Out of pity, his brother Nathan decides to marry her instead, and pity turns into a deep―and doomed―love. It is immediately clear that Lily…


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Gina Roitman Why I love this book

I was drawn into this novel, easily relating to the protagonists who, at the core of this story, suffer from a crisis of identity. It arises from feeling uncomfortable in your own skin because you don’t know where—or who—you come from. 

I related to the immigrant experience, to being the other, a displaced person, and to the conflicting desires: wanting to blend in while maintaining an individualistic identity. 

By Anita Anand ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked A Convergence of Solitudes as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

A story of identity, connection and forgiveness, A Convergence of Solitudes shares the lives of two families across Partition of India, Operation Babylift in Vietnam, and two referendums in Quebec.

Sunil and Hima, teenage lovers, bravely defy taboos in pre-Partition India to come together as their country divides in two. They move across the world to Montreal and raise a family, but Sunil shows symptoms of schizophrenia, shattering their newfound peace. As a teenager, their daughter Rani becomes obsessed with Quebecois supergroup Sensibilité―and, in particular, the band's charismatic, nationalistic frontman, Serge Giglio―whose music connects Rani to the province's struggle for…


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These Blue Mountains by Sarah Loudin Thomas,

A moving story of love, betrayal, and the enduring power of hope in the face of darkness.

German pianist Hedda Schlagel's world collapsed when her fiancé, Fritz, vanished after being sent to an enemy alien camp in the United States during the Great War. Fifteen years later, in 1932, Hedda…

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Gina Roitman Why I love this book

I have always loved David Copperfield and this book is a remarkable re-imagining of that story in a way that captivated and held me hostage until the last page. I was literally unable to put it down.

The spotlight falls on the child of a dysfunctional family and a flawed mother who succeed in their own way despite their failings. I also admired how Kingsolver reset the story in modern times with current issues front and center. She is one of my favorite writers, and this book may be her best. 

By Barbara Kingsolver ,

Why should I read it?

118 authors picked Demon Copperhead as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Demon's story begins with his traumatic birth to a single mother in a single-wide trailer, looking 'like a little blue prizefighter.' For the life ahead of him he would need all of that fighting spirit, along with buckets of charm, a quick wit, and some unexpected talents, legal and otherwise.

In the southern Appalachian Mountains of Virginia, poverty isn't an idea, it's as natural as the grass grows. For a generation growing up in this world, at the heart of the modern opioid crisis, addiction isn't an abstraction, it's neighbours, parents, and friends. 'Family' could mean love, or reluctant foster…


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Gina Roitman Why I love this book

It is compelling how Correa’s novel spans the difficult history of the 20th century as recounted through the stories of three generations of women. What absorbed me most was the lengths to which the mothers in the novel go to protect their daughters, but how family secrets invariably play out to create a cascade of consequences.

By Armando Lucas Correa ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked The Night Travelers as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Berlin, 1931: Ally Keller, a talented young poet, is alone and scared when she gives birth to a mixed-race daughter she names Lilith. As the Nazis rise to power, Ally knows she must keep her baby in the shadows to protect her against Hitler's deadly ideology of Aryan purity. But as she grows, it becomes more and more difficult to keep Lilith hidden so Ally sets in motion a dangerous and desperate plan to send her daughter across the ocean to safety.

Havana, 1958: Now an adult, Lilith has few memories of her mother or her childhood in Germany. Besides,…


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Oaky With a Hint of Murder by Dawn Brotherton,

Aury and Scott travel to the Finger Lakes in New York’s wine country to get to the bottom of the mysterious happenings at the Songscape Winery. Disturbed furniture and curious noises are one thing, but when a customer winds up dead, it’s time to dig into the details and see…

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Gina Roitman Why I love this book

I cherish this semi-autobiographical book because it spoke to my own experience growing up with parents who were Holocaust survivors. It assured me that I was not alone in my need to weave and duck the crazy emotional punches of parents who had experienced unimaginable loss and grief in their lives. 

What also recommended this story to me was how Pilcer believed in telling it like it is, yet never ceased to find the humor in situations. Hers was a kind of rebellion to authority I experienced in my life and what shaped who I am.

By Sonia Pilcer ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked The Holocaust Kid as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Wearing a tight black skirt, roach- killer boots, and teased hair, Zosha runs with her junior high school's fast crowd, circa 1960. For Zosha, life is about fitting in, stepping out, making it with the handsome Puerto Rican boy in the local movie theater. But for Zosha's parents, life is about how they survived when everyone around them died during the Holocaust. Now their daughter--born in a German DP camp and raised in New York City--must find her own way to survive.

With unique emotional honesty, Sonia Pilcer illuminates Zosha's journey through the terra incognita of life as a “2G”--…


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Don't Ask

By Gina Roitman ,

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Hannah, a successful real-estate broker, never pressed her mother Rokhl about the past—even as her late father often referenced the war she refused to mention. But when Hannah plans a business trip to Germany, Rokhl snaps, “Over my dead body!”—then vanishes. The next morning, a cryptic note remains: I am not her. Days later, Hannah identifies Rokhl’s body in the morgue.

In Germany, Hannah’s attraction to a local complicates her trip as a WWII-era family saga unravels. Parallel to her journey, a letter from Rokhl surfaces, exposing buried truths: her mother’s stolen identity, wartime survival, and the haunting legacy Hannah unknowingly carries. As past and present collide, Hannah confronts the questions she never asked and the secrets her mother refused to speak—until death demanded it.

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