Why am I passionate about this?

As the daughter of Holocaust survivors, I have always been interested in trauma and memory, racial and ethnic oppression, and gender violence. I want to make visible what has been marginalized, forgotten, or repressed. I am also moved by the way that personal stories connect us to larger collectivities and histories. When I visited the lynching memorial in Montgomery, my parents’ hometown in Poland, or the memorial to Walter Benjamin in Portbou, Spain, I felt compelled to write about the embodied experience of place and the importance of activist memory. I have also written about the imagery of lynching, war and ruins, and artworks by the offspring of Holocaust survivors.


I wrote

Calling Memory Into Place

By Dora Apel ,

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What is my book about?

How can memory be mobilized for social justice? How can images and monuments counter public forgetting? And how can inherited…

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The books I picked & why

Book cover of Inheritance: A Memoir of Genealogy, Paternity, and Love

Dora Apel Why I love this book

What excites me about this book is the way that Dani Shapiro spins a shocking discovery about her genealogy--that her father is not her biological father--into a moving story about family secrets and the meaning of identity. She has written earlier memoirs, which are also great, but what she believed about who she was is shattered in this one and beautifully explored. When I read it, I thought, This could happen to any of us.

By Dani Shapiro ,

Why should I read it?

7 authors picked Inheritance as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • From the acclaimed author of Inheritance and host of the hit podcast Family Secrets: a memoir about the staggering family secret uncovered by a genealogy test, an exploration of the urgent ethical questions surrounding fertility treatments and DNA testing, and a profound inquiry of paternity, identity, and love.

“Memoir gold: a profound and exquisitely rendered exploration of identity and the true meaning of family.” —People

In the spring of 2016, through a genealogy website to which she had casually submitted her DNA for analysis, Dani Shapiro received the stunning news that her beloved deceased father…


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Dora Apel Why I love this book

I am amazed by the way Joan Didion probes her own sense of sanity following the sudden death of her beloved husband, the way she questions everything she thought she knew as she examines her marriage and the workings of her grief and loss. Her candor is brave, memorable, and inspiring, and helped me get through my own grief when my mother died.

By Joan Didion ,

Why should I read it?

18 authors picked The Year of Magical Thinking as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

From one of America's iconic writers, a portrait of a marriage and a life - in good times and bad - that will speak to anyone who has ever loved a husband or wife or child. A stunning book of electric honesty and passion.

Several days before Christmas 2003, John Gregory Dunne and Joan Didion saw their only daughter, Quintana, fall ill. At first they thought it was flu, then pneumonia, then complete sceptic shock. She was put into an induced coma and placed on life support. Days later - the night before New Year's Eve -the Dunnes were just…


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Cyborg Fever by Laurie Sheck,

From Pulitzer Finalist Laurie Sheck (A Monster's Notes), a new speculative literary fiction in the spirit of Italo Calvino, Umberto Ecco and Donna Haraway's Cyborg Manifesto that enacts an incisive and moving exploration into what it means to be human in the age of AI and increasing inhumanism.…

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Dora Apel Why I love this book

I love how intellectually and emotionally daring this book is, how fearless and willing to challenge conventional notions. Maggie Nelson writes beautifully and honestly about sex and sexuality, queerness, desire, language, and the meaning of family, pregnancy, and motherhood. I am inspired by the way she blends the intensely personal with the philosophical and with critical inquiry.

By Maggie Nelson ,

Why should I read it?

5 authors picked The Argonauts as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

An intrepid voyage out to the frontiers of the latest thinking about love, language, and family

Maggie Nelson's The Argonauts is a genre-bending memoir, a work of "autotheory" offering fresh, fierce, and timely thinking about desire, identity, and the limitations and possibilities of love and language. It binds an account of Nelson's relationship with her partner and a journey to and through a pregnancy to a rigorous exploration of sexuality, gender, and "family." An insistence on radical individual freedom and the value of caretaking becomes the rallying cry for this thoughtful, unabashed, uncompromising book.


Book cover of Prosthetic Memory: The Transformation of American Remembrance in the Age of Mass Culture

Dora Apel Why I love this book

I really appreciate Alison Landsberg’s focus on the fact that all of us, regardless, of race, gender, or ethnicity, are able to experience empathy for people whose experience is historically different than our own. I find this argument especially important in an era of alarming race essentialism, such as the protest against a painting of Emmett Till because the artist was White.

By Alison Landsberg ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Prosthetic Memory as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Instead of compartmentalizing American experience, the technologies of mass culture make it possible for anyone, regardless of race, ethnicity, or gender to share collective memories-to assimilate as personal experience historical events through which they themselves did not live. That's the provocative argument of this book, which examines the formation and potential of privately felt public memories. Alison Landsberg argues that mass cultural forms such as cinema and television in fact contain the still-unrealized potential for a progressive politics based on empathy for the historical experiences of others. The result is a new form of public cultural memory-"prosthetic" memory-that awakens the…


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Who Is a Worthy Mother? by Rebecca Wellington,

I grew up thinking that being adopted didn’t matter. I was wrong. This book is my journey uncovering the significance and true history of adoption practices in America. Now, in the wake of the U.S. Supreme Court’s overturning of Roe v. Wade, the renewed debate over women’s reproductive rights places…

Book cover of The Stages of Memory: Reflections on Memorial Art, Loss, and the Spaces Between

Dora Apel Why I love this book

Whether he’s talking about Holocaust memorials or the 9/11 memorial, James Young is always eloquent and poignant. The most important thing I have learned from all his writing is that memorials can never be redemptive, but must express the void of loss without attempting to fill it with consoling meaning.

By James E Young ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked The Stages of Memory as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

From around the world, whether for New York City's 9/11 Memorial, at exhibits devoted to the arts of Holocaust memory, or throughout Norway's memorial process for the murders at Utoya, James E. Young has been called on to help guide the grief stricken and survivors in how to mark their losses. This poignant, beautifully written collection of essays offers personal and professional considerations of what Young calls the ""stages of memory,"" acts of commemoration that include spontaneous memorials of flowers and candles as well as permanent structures integrated into sites of tragedy. As he traces an arc of memorial forms…


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Calling Memory Into Place

By Dora Apel ,

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What is my book about?

How can memory be mobilized for social justice? How can images and monuments counter public forgetting? And how can inherited family and cultural traumas be channeled in useful ways? From the street memorials for Michael Brown in Ferguson, Missouri, to the national lynching memorial and museum in Montgomery, Alabama, to my own family's experience of the Holocaust and its impact on my experience of breast cancer treatment, my book explores the dynamic nature of memory, memorials, and the inscription of trauma on the body as a site of memory. Focusing on the relations among place, memory, and identity, I consider the dynamic and productive nature of memory as it crosses geography and generations.

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