Why am I passionate about this?

It’s not an exaggeration to say that finding a path toward a spiritual belief that accepted me for who I am was a lifelong pursuit for me. As someone who felt pushed out by the Catholic Church for my transness, I wanted to find something that kept some of those traditions but built on them in a way that made sense to me and included me. Italian-American folk magic had room for people like me in a way that organized religion never did. The magical memoirs of contemporary writers inspired me to synthesize what I’d learned into my own grimoire/memoir. 


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Breaking the Curse: A Memoir about Trauma, Healing, and Italian Witchcraft

By Alex Difrancesco ,

Book cover of Breaking the Curse: A Memoir about Trauma, Healing, and Italian Witchcraft

What is my book about?

This is a book about forging a path through violence, transphobic discrimination, and childhood abuse with ancestral magic.

Part memoir,…

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The books I picked & why

Book cover of Aura: A Memoir

Alex Difrancesco Why I love this book

I love this meditation on magic, parenting a child with a medical condition, and intimate partner violence for its honesty and bravery.

Hillary Leftwich doesn’t shy away from discussing traumatic events and her own decisions that left her life feeling unmoored and the magical pathways that helped her come back to herself. Fearless and insightful, this was one of my favorite memoirs in recent years. 

By Hillary Leftwich ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Aura as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

AURA is more than a memoir-- it's a spell book for survival, a powerful promise from mother to son, and an intimate examination of power, spirituality, and the abuse of both.

"AURA is more than a memoir-- it's a spell book for survival, a powerful promise from mother to son, and an intimate examination of power, spirituality, and the abuse of both. Hillary Leftwich weaves together the stories of her life to create startlingly raw memories that are both personal and profoundly universal. She explores the devastating impact of patriarchy in her own life while searching for answers in witchcraft,…


Book cover of White Magic

Alex Difrancesco Why I love this book

I was amazed and inspired by the places that Elissa Washuta went with this book. Not only is it about living in a potentially haunted home and the magic that the author engages with, but also, somehow, about historical markers, The Oregon Trail, and indigeneity.

I felt like I was traveling along with Elissa Washuta’s brilliant mind as she made her way through all these seemingly disparate but ultimately very connected topics. 

By Elissa Washuta ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked White Magic as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Finalist for the PEN Open Book Award

Longlisted for the PEN/Jean Stein Award

A TIME, NPR, New York Public Library, Lit Hub, Book Riot, and Entropy Best Book of the Year

"Beguiling and haunting. . . . Washuta's voice sears itself onto the skin." ―The New York Times Book Review

Bracingly honest and powerfully affecting, White Magic establishes Elissa Washuta as one of our best living essayists.

Throughout her life, Elissa Washuta has been surrounded by cheap facsimiles of Native spiritual tools and occult trends, “starter witch kits” of sage, rose quartz, and tarot cards packaged together in paper and…


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The Parent's Guide to Birdnesting by Dr. Ann Gold Buscho,

Based on research about how divorce can affect children, you will learn how to best support your children's resilience, as well as your own. For parents who are separating and want to put their children first, birdnesting could be the interim or long-term shared parenting solution you’ve been looking for.…

Book cover of Italian Folk Magic: Rue's Kitchen Witchery

Alex Difrancesco Why I love this book

People throw around the phrase “this book changed my life” far too easily, in my opinion, so when I say it about this book, please know that I mean it with all my being. I found this book while I was in a mental health crisis, and it helped link me to my ancestors, the good life they would wish for me, and forgiveness through intricately detailed rituals and folk traditions.

A must-read if you’re Italian-American–or even if you’re not–this book helped me structure my life in a way that felt true to who I am. 

By Mary-Grace Fahrun ,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked Italian Folk Magic as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

In this fascinating journey through the magical, folkloric, and healing traditions of Italy the reader learns uniquely Italian methods of magical protection and divination and spells for love, sex, control, and revenge.

"Mary-Grace Fahrun's Italian Folk Magic is an intimate journey into the heart of Italian folk magical practices as they are lived every day. Having grown up in an extended Italian family in North America and Italy, the author presents us with the stories, characters, saints, charms, and prayers that form the core of folk religion, setting them in context in an authentic, down-to-earth, and humorous voice. A delight…


Book cover of Honoring Your Ancestors: A Guide to Ancestral Veneration

Alex Difrancesco Why I love this book

I have a fraught relationship with my ancestors, but I still wish for their blessings and the hope they had for me. This book, with its magical rituals for elevating ancestors and paths to forgiveness, helped me come to peace with the people who’d come before me and with myself.

It is a must-read for anyone who has any interest in channeling the magic of their lineage. 

By Mallorie Vaudoise ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Honoring Your Ancestors as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Ancestor veneration is one of the most widespread spiritual practices in the world. This book shares techniques to help you connect to your ancestors and receive the benefits that come from veneration more love in your life, better outcomes in creative pursuits, and an improved sense of wellness. Discover how genealogical research, family recipes, gentle rituals, and even practices like music and dancing can help open a wonderful new dimension of your spiritual journey. Honoring Your Ancestors shares the important distinctions between working with blood ancestors, lineage ancestors, and affinity ancestors. You will also explore the topic of ancestral trauma…


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Self-Love for Women by Stephen Whitehead,

A ground-breaking book with a highly original theme; helping women achieve self-love and thereby overcome the toxic consequences of male dominance, patriarchy, and traditional gender values. Within these pages, we meet twelve ordinary women and hear of their hopes, loves, despair, pain and triumphs. Through these stories, we learn about…

Book cover of Burn a Black Candle: An Italian American Grimoire

Alex Difrancesco Why I love this book

I found the discussions in this book to deepen the understanding of what I had gained from Italian-American folk tradition and magic that I first came across in Italian Folk Magic.

With discussions of saint veneration, ancestor veneration, ritual, and more, this book gave my magical practice more depth and direction. 

By Dee Norman ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Burn a Black Candle as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

The Italian folklore tradition is one of the most ancient unbroken chains of wisdom on earth. Discover the previously unwritten secrets of an Italian American family's magical tradition passed down from generation to generation. This spellbook provides easy, step-by-step introductions to the basics of authentic Italian American magical practice. Discover how to:

Run a magical household, including creating a family altar and connecting with your ancestors
Enhance your wellbeing for self and family through Buona Fortuna
Perform transformative candle magic
Diagnose, cure and ward away malocchio
Learn time-tested health remedies from relieving symptoms of viruses to maintaining healthy skin and…


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Breaking the Curse: A Memoir about Trauma, Healing, and Italian Witchcraft

By Alex Difrancesco ,

Book cover of Breaking the Curse: A Memoir about Trauma, Healing, and Italian Witchcraft

What is my book about?

This is a book about forging a path through violence, transphobic discrimination, and childhood abuse with ancestral magic.

Part memoir, part self-help book, and part grimoire, my book invites readers into a non-linear, intimate discussion of the narrator’s life and struggles and their ultimate triumph over them. 

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