Why am I passionate about this?

I’m Deb Miller, a former Fortune 500 executive, marketing professor, and a woman who once believed in fairy tales—until life handed me a sword instead of a slipper. My memoir is all about rewriting the princess narrative and proving that modern-day warrior princesses don’t wait to be saved—they save themselves. I’ve spent my life balancing boardrooms and bedtime stories, raising three extraordinary children while fighting for my own happiness. I have a passion for stories that shatter outdated tropes and celebrate strong women who define their own happily ever afters.


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Forget the Fairy Tale and Find Your Happiness

By Deb Miller ,

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What is my book about?

What if Cinderella realized Prince Charming wasn’t the key to 'Happily Ever After'? Instead of waiting to be saved, she…

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The books I picked & why

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Deb Miller Why I love this book

Elizabeth Zott doesn’t need a prince—she needs science, self-respect, and a society that doesn’t stand in her way. I loved the way this novel brilliantly balances humor, feminism, and resilience, proving that a woman’s happiness isn’t found in a fairy tale but in her own determination.

Prince Charming is optional: that’s a book I can relate to. 

By Bonnie Garmus ,

Why should I read it?

95 authors picked Lessons in Chemistry as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • GOOD MORNING AMERICA BOOK CLUB PICK • Meet Elizabeth Zott: a “formidable, unapologetic and inspiring” (PARADE) scientist in 1960s California whose career takes a detour when she becomes the unlikely star of a beloved TV cooking show in this novel that is “irresistible, satisfying and full of fuel. It reminds you that change takes time and always requires heat” (The New York Times Book Review).

A BEST BOOK OF THE YEAR: The New York Times, Washington Post, NPR, Oprah Daily, Newsweek, GoodReads

"A unique heroine ... you'll find yourself wishing she wasn’t fictional." —Seattle Times…


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Deb Miller Why I love this book

This memoir is a manifesto for any woman who’s ever felt trapped by others' expectations. Doyle breaks free from the ‘good girl’ narrative and shows us that true happiness comes from listening to our inner voice—not from chasing society’s version of ‘happily ever after.’

Her journey of self-discovery is both raw and empowering, just the kind of book I like to bury my face in.

By Glennon Doyle ,

Why should I read it?

17 authors picked Untamed as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • OVER TWO MILLION COPIES SOLD! “Packed with incredible insight about what it means to be a woman today.”—Reese Witherspoon (Reese’s Book Club Pick)

In her most revealing and powerful memoir yet, the activist, speaker, bestselling author, and “patron saint of female empowerment” (People) explores the joy and peace we discover when we stop striving to meet others’ expectations and start trusting the voice deep within us.

NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY O: The Oprah Magazine • The Washington Post • Cosmopolitan • Marie Claire • Bloomberg • Parade •…


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Living On Purpose by Amy Wong,

Many people from all walks of life, even after many accomplishments and experiences, are often plagued by dissatisfaction, pervasive longing, and deep questioning. These feelings may make them wonder if they are living the life they were meant to lead.

Living on Purpose is the guidebook these people have been…

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Deb Miller Why I love this book

This book is a powerful reminder that our happiness is up to us—no one else, a key takeaway of my memoir. I could relate to feeling drained trying to ‘fix’ people or meet impossible expectations.

This was the reinforcement I needed about the freedom I felt to let go of toxic situations and relationships.

By Mel Robbins , Sawyer Robbins ,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked The Let Them Theory as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

#1 New York Times Bestseller
#1 Sunday Times Bestseller
#1 Amazon Bestseller
#1 Audible Bestseller

A Life-Changing Tool Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About

What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words?

If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words-Let Them-will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory…


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Deb Miller Why I love this book

Not all princesses wait to be saved. Sara Crewe teaches us that strength, kindness, and imagination can carry us through even the darkest times.

This timeless novel is still relevant today. It proves that real royalty comes from within—something I deeply connected with while writing my memoir and the reason I opened the book with a quote from Burnett.

By Frances Hodgson Burnett ,

Why should I read it?

5 authors picked A Little Princess as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 8, 9, 10, and 11.

What is this book about?

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'Whatever comes,' she said, 'cannot alter one thing. If I am a princess in rags and tatters, I can be a princess inside.'

'A Little Princess' tells the story of Sara Crewe, beloved daughter of the revered Captain Crewe. Sent to board at Miss Minchin's Select Seminary for Young Ladies, Sara is devastated when her adored father dies. Suddenly penniless, Sara is banished to an attic room where she is starved, abused, and forced to work as a servant. How this exceptionally intelligent girl uses the only resources…


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Living On Purpose by Amy Wong,

Many people from all walks of life, even after many accomplishments and experiences, are often plagued by dissatisfaction, pervasive longing, and deep questioning. These feelings may make them wonder if they are living the life they were meant to lead.

Living on Purpose is the guidebook these people have been…

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Deb Miller Why I love this book

This book unapologetically calls out the toxic myths we’ve been fed about love, relationships, and self-worth.

I found this book to be an empowering read that helps us break free from the ‘prince charming’ illusion and embrace a reality where we are our own rescuers. That’s my kind of book. 

By Shannon Heth , Beau Nelson ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Cinderella, You Bitch as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

It's time to smash that glass slipper and find your own happily ever after!

The fairy-tale narrative is a poisoned apple of unrealistic expectations and impossible relationship goals. If you're sick of kissing frogs in search of Prince Charming, get ready to rescue your own love life from Cinderella Syndrome! Part self-help, part history lesson, Cinderella, You Bitch is the sassy, smart, and soulful guide that shows you how to:

Identify and release your own fairy-tale expectations Break the spell of old beliefs and patterns that hold you back from being your true self in—and out of—a relationship Rewrite your…


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Forget the Fairy Tale and Find Your Happiness

By Deb Miller ,

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What is my book about?

What if Cinderella realized Prince Charming wasn’t the key to 'Happily Ever After'? Instead of waiting to be saved, she grabbed the reins—kids in tow—and set out to create her own destiny. That’s exactly what I did. My journey of self-discovery began with a passion for tennis, taking me from being a Midwest mom and part-time accounting professor to Russia’s Red Square and, ultimately, an exhilarating career in global marketing.

A unique twist in my memoir is how Disney princesses serve as chapter epigraphs, foreshadowing my evolution. Once damsels in distress, theylike metransformed into warriors, explorers, and dreamers. This is a story of breaking free from outdated narratives and redefining what 'Happily Ever After' really means.

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