Why am I passionate about this?

I’ve always been drawn to stories about daughters coming home to complicated mothers and the unfinished versions of themselves they left behind. As an immigrant who moved from India to the U.S. at thirteen, and now as a physician and mother, I live in that in-between space where past and present, duty and desire constantly collide. Reading great novels that explored these tensions was the spark that pushed me to start writing my own. I gravitate toward books where family love is real but messy, home is both refuge and trigger, and women are allowed to be imperfect, angry, tender, and still deeply human.


I wrote...

Do Not Follow

By Surbhi Bansal ,

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What is my book about?

When I wrote Do Not Follow, I wanted to capture something I'd felt but rarely seen on the page:…

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The books I picked & why

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Surbhi Bansal Why I love this book

This novel dives headfirst into the most uncomfortable corners of a mother–daughter relationship.

I love how Doshi refuses to make either woman simply "good" or "bad" and instead sits in the murky space of resentment, obligation, and love. It's a book that made me feel complicit, unsettled, and oddly seen—as both a daughter and a mother.

By Avni Doshi ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Burnt Sugar as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Shortlisted for the 2020 Booker Prize, Avni Doshi's Burnt Sugar is a searing literary debut novel set in India about mothers and daughters, obsession, and betrayal.

NPR Best Book of 2020

A Pen America Literary Award Finalist

“I would be lying if I say my mother's misery has never given me pleasure,” says Antara, Tara's now-adult daughter.

In her youth, Tara was wild. She abandoned her marriage to join an ashram, and while Tara is busy as a partner to the ashram's spiritual leader, Baba, little Antara is cared for by an older devotee, Kali Mata, an American who came…


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Surbhi Bansal Why I love this book

In this essay, Roy writes about her relationship with her mother, Mary, with a mix of sharp honesty and tenderness.

I love how she captures a daughter’s push-and-pull between rebellion and devotion, irritation and gratitude. It’s a reminder that our mothers can be both our fiercest critics and our fiercest protectors—and that understanding them often means revisiting the stories we’ve told ourselves for years.

By Arundhati Roy ,

Why should I read it?

2 authors picked Mother Mary Comes to Me as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.


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Lake Song by Lesley Pratt Bannatyne,

Selected by Deesha Philyaw as winner of the AWP Grace Paley Prize in Short Fiction, Lake Song is set in the fictional town of Kinder Falls in New York’s Finger Lakes region. This novel in stories spans decades to plumb the complexities, violence, and compassion of small-town life as the…

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Surbhi Bansal Why I love this book

This is such a tender, funny, and honest portrait of three sisters fulfilling their mother's final wish.

I love how the pilgrimage to India becomes a mirror for each woman's private disappointments, loyalties, and quiet strengths. It captures the messiness of sibling dynamics and the complicated afterlife of a mother's expectations.

By Balli Kaur Jaswal ,

Why should I read it?

3 authors picked The Unlikely Adventures of the Shergill Sisters as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Grab your passport and let the Shergill sisters take you on a journey...

Meet the Shergill Sisters.

The know-it-all, Rajni.
The drama queen, Jezmeen.
The golden child, Shirina.

They have never been close. But their mother's dying wish was for them to take a pilgrimage across India together, to carry out her final rites. And so, the sisters are thrown together for one last (and very strange) family holiday.

The three women seem to have nothing in common, apart from the fact that each of them has a secret she would prefer to keep hidden. But as one unlikely adventure…


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Surbhi Bansal Why I love this book

Lahiri writes about immigrant families with a kind of quiet precision that always undoes me.

I love how this novel follows Gogol's uneasy relationship with his name, his parents, and the home they left behind. It's a beautiful exploration of how we inherit both love and loneliness from our families, and how long it can take to understand either.

By Jhumpa Lahiri ,

Why should I read it?

4 authors picked The Namesake as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it. This book is for kids age 14, 15, 16, and 17.

What is this book about?

'The Namesake' is the story of a boy brought up Indian in America.

'When her grandmother learned of Ashima's pregnancy, she was particularly thrilled at the prospect of naming the family's first sahib. And so Ashima and Ashoke have agreed to put off the decision of what to name the baby until a letter comes...'

For now, the label on his hospital cot reads simply BABY BOY GANGULI. But as time passes and still no letter arrives from India, American bureaucracy takes over and demands that 'baby boy Ganguli' be given a name. In a panic, his father decides to…


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Lane and the Inventor by Amy Q. Barker,

A grumpy-sunshine, slow-burn, sweet-and-steamy romance set in wild and beautiful small-town Colorado. Lane Gravers is a wanderer, adventurer, yoga instructor, and social butterfly when she meets reserved, quiet, pensive Logan Hickory, a loner inventor with a painful past.

Dive into this small-town, steamy romance between two opposites who find love…

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Surbhi Bansal Why I love this book

This book opens with a daughter's death, but it's really about everything that went unspoken long before that moment.

I love how Ng peels back the layers of race, gender, and parental expectation in a 1970s Midwestern family. It's a masterclass in showing how quiet misunderstandings and unvoiced desires can ripple through generations.

By Celeste Ng ,

Why should I read it?

10 authors picked Everything I Never Told You as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

The acclaimed debut novel by the author of Little Fires Everywhere and Our Missing Hearts

"A taut tale of ever deepening and quickening suspense." -O, the Oprah Magazine

"Explosive . . . Both a propulsive mystery and a profound examination of a mixed-race family." -Entertainment Weekly

"Lydia is dead. But they don't know this yet." So begins this exquisite novel about a Chinese American family living in 1970s small-town Ohio. Lydia is the favorite child of Marilyn and James Lee, and her parents are determined that she will fulfill the dreams they were unable to pursue. But when Lydia's body…


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Do Not Follow

By Surbhi Bansal ,

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What is my book about?

When I wrote Do Not Follow, I wanted to capture something I'd felt but rarely seen on the page: what it's like to return home as a middle-aged woman—not as the daughter you once were, but as someone who's lived a whole life elsewhere. Seema goes back to her hometown after 17 years, expecting closure. Instead, she finds clutter, old wounds, and a mother who still knows exactly how to unsettle her.

If you've ever felt the tug of home even when it's the last place you want to go, or if you've ever wondered whether you can truly know your mother (or yourself) after years of distance, Do Not Follow is for you.

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