The best sci-fi books about unorthodox families and friendships

I’m a sucker for found families and motley crews. The Outsiders is a great example of this kind of story, though this book doesn’t have greasers per se, the connection that this multi-specie ship crew is one I can relate to.

I’ve been a performer most of my life, and the relationship that develops when people share a common passion and goal, such as putting on a performance, can run deep. That’s mainly because the thing created is greater than the sum of its parts, and that can be beautiful. This book reminds me of that feeling.

The crews on this ship are literally family.

Imagine living on a ship with 1,000 of your relatives. Everyone looks out for each other (mostly) and even when strangers enter the fold, if they’re accepted, they’re treated just like family.

I had a landlord like that. He treated me like a son, and I’ll never forget it, even if my apartment, just like space, was always cold. 

We know there are families in the animal world, and we know there are bigger social constructs, too.

I’ve read about how animals have emotion and show compassion for one another, and even for other species. It makes me wonder about the why and how of the human dynamic and a book like this one that takes that and creates a looking glass for me to consider that is a good brain story for me.

My sister and I were only close because we’re only two years apart. But recently we’ve had some tragedy in our family, and that brought us closer.

While I was making this list of books, I was reminded of this story and how much I enjoyed it, not just for the prose, which I take notice of and will drop a book if it’s bad, but for that reminder of the brother and sister story here. Not to mention the rescue crew of odd characters which reflects a belief of mine: truth is universal.

Any human or alien can understand compassion and suffering and choose the better of the two.

When I was fifteen, I worked as a busboy in a restaurant. One of the waitresses there left a serious impression on me because she treated me with such care and kindness.

I really felt like she was my surrogate mother. If she had been taken, like what happens in this book, I would have scoured the earth to find her and save her. She had that much of an impact on my life. I was thinking of her when I re-read this book recently.