The best books to build belief in oneself and bring down bullies

This made me laugh, and it made me cry. I challenge anybody with a heart not to feel for Augie Pullman as he not only survives a new school and new situation but thrives in them. He doesn’t just overcome his self-doubt; he proves to himself and everyone else that he’s not only his classmates’ equal but their superior. Augie surpasses every single other child character in this book with his compassion and intelligence. He is a hero of the 21st century. 

As cliché as it sounds, I couldn’t put it down. In between reading sessions (that I undertook with my daughter), I found myself obsessing about Augie’s plight and wondering what would happen to him next. I needed to know how the young boy with the messed-up face would respond and react to whatever challenges the world, his school, his town, his family, and his friend threw at him. And I was not disappointed. In every instance, Augie rose to the occasion and excelled at being the type of human uber-mensh that we all would dream to be (on our best days). 

I used to be husky. I had weight problems when I was in middle school and jr. high. To be able to read stories like this as an adult gives me hope for the children of newer generations. Kids who get to meet Ellie and travel through her traumatic experiences will understand that they are not alone.

Bullying and shaming (for whatever reason) are traditions that need to be thrown out. As writers, educators, and parents work hard to protect their kids and teach them right from wrong, it is critical to have examples in books and shows that help kids walk a mile in someone else’s shoes. Both Ellie (from Starfish) and Coleman (from Don’t Mess with Coleman Stoops) achieve this. 

I love Beth Vrabel’s series because it reminds me of all my favorite stories from growing up in the 1980s: Stand By Me, The Goonies, Explorers, and The Sandlot. There is something inherently nostalgic (for me) about characters that struggle with belonging, being part of the ‘in’ crowd, and having to find their true selves amidst the adolescent pressures to be cool and to conform.

The author has expertly taken many of these archetypes and modernized them, allowing contemporary audiences to find similarities and relatability to their own lives and experiences. I think that I personally relate to the character Kit the most. She’s the one who is modeled after classic characters like Elliot from E.T. I also love how sweet and funny this book can be. In a world filled with screens, it is amazing to have role model characters who are kids themselves for readers to look up to and try to emulate. 

I love so much about this book. The heroine is constantly being thrown curve balls in life, and it’s up to her to navigate those challenges. This isn’t just a book about bullying; it is a book about how to get back up after a setback, dust yourself off, and keep trying to succeed in the face of all adversity.

Charlotte is a very relatable main character, who has an embarrassing trait that she goes out of her way to hide so that she can avoid the bullies. But she faces other trials as well: What should she do when she witnesses other children being bullied? How can she speak up when she begins stuttering and then gets bullied all over again? When Charlotte learns of her proclivity for singing, the administration kills the performing arts at the school! So what does she do? Does she retreat with her tail between her legs? No! She begins writing!

Many of the adults in her life write her notes, and she takes a cue from them: her mother, her teachers, other friends… Charlotte is able to chart her personal course that begins with not speaking, moves to singing, and finally evolves to writing. All of this is part of her never-ending efforts to find her voice and her place in the world! 

Judy Blume books are classics! One of the aspects I love most about this one is that the main character is neither the victim nor the bully. She’s a classmate stuck in the middle. Jill is, depending on the chapter, either a bully or a victim—but her role is to witness the bullying events in her class and report them back to the reader.

The reader judges for himself how Jilly fits into the bigger picture of bullying. It’s very easy for younger readers to relate to Jill because chances are they have been in both roles at different times. Jill learns the hard way throughout the story that it isn’t fun to be the bully because sooner or later, even bullies end up being bullied.